Danny Frawley’s wife Anita Frawley reveals AFL star’s mental health ‘deteriorated’ before death
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Anita Frawley said her husband’s death had left “a gaping hole” in their family. (Facebook: LR Photography)
The spouse of former AFL star Danny Frawley has revealed her husband had eliminated himself from therapy and medicine for his despair within the months main as much as his sudden demise.
- Anita Frawley stated her husband was feeling “invincible” when he stopped taking remedy eight months in the past
- She urged anybody experiencing psychological well being points to hunt assist from professionals even when they felt that they had recovered
- She stated her husband would have needed her to be open with the general public in regards to the lead-up to his demise
Frawley, a former St Kilda captain, Richmond coach and media persona, died in a single-car crash near Ballarat last week, one day after celebrating his 56th birthday.
His demise sparked an outpouring of grief from across the football community, together with his colleagues remembering his relentless sense of humour and “nostril for mischief”.
In a press release launched through the AFL, Anita Frawley stated her husband would have needed her to “be open with the general public of the occasions main as much as this heartbreak”.
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Ms Frawley stated her husband, who had lived with despair for a number of years, had felt “invincible” about eight months in the past when he determined to cease taking his prescribed remedy.
She stated whereas the circumstances of the single-car crashed that killed Frawley would stay unsure till police investigations had been full, “it was true that Danny’s psychological well being had deteriorated in current weeks”.
“The rationale I’m making this public is that I need this to be a reminder to all these grappling with psychological well being circumstances and to these whom have made progress with their wellbeing that you must all the time search assist from professionals when contemplating making selections surrounding your psychological well being, even if you really feel as if you’ve got totally recovered,” she stated.
Anita Frawley’s assertion in full
On Monday, the love of my life was tragically taken from my women and I.
Many have speculated on the trigger and lead as much as this tragedy. Danny, as a champion of psychological well being would need me to proceed his legacy and be open with the general public of the occasions main as much as this heartbreak.
Whereas the circumstances of the occasion are unconfirmed and can stay unsure till the investigations are full, it was true that Danny’s psychological well being had deteriorated in current weeks.
As is broadly identified, Danny had skilled and lived with despair relationship again various years. However to his credit score, he had put up his hand and accepted psychiatric therapy, counselling and medicine. He recovered and returned to being the Danny of previous.
The street main as much as final Monday’s occasions started eight months in the past when Danny made the choice to take himself off his prescribed remedy.
At this level Danny felt invincible, just like the true competitor and proud man that he was; he felt that he had overwhelmed the illness.
In reality, he felt bullet proof, which contributed to his determination to take away himself from his help community together with his psychiatric care and never persevering with to work together with his group of psychological well being professionals.
The rationale I’m making this public is that I need this to be a reminder to all these grappling with psychological well being circumstances and to these whom have made progress with their wellbeing that you must all the time search assist from professionals when contemplating making selections surrounding your psychological well being, even if you really feel as if you’ve got totally recovered.
Our ultimate reminiscence of Danny is one we are going to cherish ceaselessly, an evening spent sitting round our household desk, taking part in board video games and laughing on his 56th birthday. He won’t ever be forgotten and can ceaselessly be in our hearts.
I wish to go away everybody with this quote from Danny, “manning up prior to now was to undergo in silence, manning up now’s to place your hand up.”
We invite all those that wish to farewell our outstanding man to affix us at RSEA Park – St Kilda Soccer Membership, 32/60 Linton St, Moorabbin, VIC, 3189 at 3pm on Wednesday the 18th of September.
We will probably be carrying a contact of blue in reminiscence of Danny and for the importance of beyondblue (https://www.beyondblue.org.au/), PukaUp (https://www.pukaup.com/) and One In 5 (https://oneinfive.com.au/).
To point out your condolences, we ask that you just please donate to beyondblue in honour of Danny.
Danny, you had been the love of my life and can proceed to be till our paths cross once more.
Since Monday, there was a gaping gap in our household which is able to by no means be repaired.
The women and I are discovering it troublesome to just accept you’re gone and our lives as we knew them won’t ever be the identical.
We miss you. We are going to all the time miss you. Anita xx
Skilled warns stopping remedy raises danger of relapse
Affiliate Professor and guide psychiatrist at Orygen Christopher Davey stated despair was sadly a reoccurring sickness for many individuals, with individuals going via durations of feeling nicely and unwell.
“It is comprehensible … when persons are feeling nicely that they could wish to cease their therapy, however that does put them at better danger of relapsing again into the despair,” he stated.
“So it is simply actually necessary when individuals wish to cease remedy that they accomplish that underneath supervision of their treating clinicians.”
Associate Professor Chris Davey said it was important to speak about mental illness. (ABC News)
He added it was necessary to debate steel sickness regardless of the unlucky stigma it attracts.
“As a part of that [stigma], individuals may not be so keen to speak about their therapy and the way therapy is perhaps serving to them,” he stated.
“So it is simply actually necessary that there’s consciousness that despair is widespread. It may be very severe and extreme.”
“Drugs will help, however the converse is that when individuals cease taking their remedy they’re placing themselves at excessive danger of issues getting worse.”
He stated it was pretty widespread for individuals to cease taking their remedy or seeing their therapist after they felt nicely.
“One of many advices we all the time give to people who find themselves taking remedy is that they do proceed taking their remedy for six to 12 months after they really feel higher simply due to how dangerous it’s for them of relapsing again into that despair in these 12 months after they get higher,” he stated.